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15 Sure Signs You’ve Hit Middle Age

15 signs of middle ageMiddle age is a tricky thing.

Does it happen at 35 or is it 55?

No one really knows for sure.

In the stone age, middle age truly would have been old age.

There are young people who act old. Old people who act young. Perhaps best not to judge too much.

So how do you know if you’re middle age?

I compiled a list to help figure out where you might be on the middle age spectrum.

Count how many you say “Yes” to.

1. Muffin top is no longer something you only find in the bakery section. It’s now in the midsection too.

2. Comfortable shoes sound sexy, at least that’s what you tell yourself.

3. You need the gray touched up every two weeks, though you’ll push it to three or four. Maybe more.

4. 10 pm is a late night out.

5. You become nostalgic about everything.

6. You really want to go for a jog. You really do. But it would take too long to recover.

7. You use the word “jog”.

8. The music in every store is too loud and you’re not afraid to tell the salespeople to lower it.

9. A magnifying mirror and tweezers have become your best friend.

10. You eat less and exercise more. And that’s just to maintain your weight.

11. Every time you sneeze there’s an unpleasant surprise.

12. You can’t read a thing without your glasses. You now have a pair in every room ofย  the house.

13. You’ve found at least one gray hair in your eyebrows. Possibly down south in your nether regions too.

14. You forgot why you’re taking this quiz.

15. There’s a strong possibility your keys are missing too.

If you’ve nodded your head “Yes” up to 5 times: you’re still quite young and should just invest in a good sunscreen; 6-10 times: You’re almost there. Maybe start thinking about estate planning; 11 or more: Welcome to middle age and elastic waistbands. You’ve now turned into your mother.

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Filed Under: Beauty, Fashion & Exercise, Midlife musings Tagged With: how do you know if you're middle age?, middle age, what age is middle age

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  1. Lisa @ The Golden Spoons says

    May 6, 2014 at 4:23 am

    Ha! I said yes to ten so I am very, very close even though I’m just 37! Especially, #’s 1, 4, & 10. ๐Ÿ™‚

    Reply
    • Carpool Goddess says

      May 6, 2014 at 9:53 am

      Only three? You’re practically still a teenager ๐Ÿ™‚

      Reply
      • Carpool Goddess says

        May 6, 2014 at 9:54 am

        Oops, thought that said three. I need stronger glasses (another sign!) Not to worry, you could hover around 10 for a long time. 37 is a wonderful age. Sigh.

        Reply
  2. Sarah (est. 1975) says

    May 6, 2014 at 5:26 am

    No gray nether regions… yet. But I pretty much fall into all the categories on this list.

    (Except wanting to go for a jog.)

    Reply
    • Carpool Goddess says

      May 6, 2014 at 9:47 am

      Thanks Lucia!

      Reply
    • Carpool Goddess says

      May 6, 2014 at 9:48 am

      Welcome to the club ๐Ÿ™‚

      Reply
  3. Sharon Greenthal says

    May 6, 2014 at 8:22 am

    Good grief. I’m so middle-aged.

    Reply
    • Carpool Goddess says

      May 6, 2014 at 9:46 am

      You’re in good company!

      Reply
  4. Lucia P. says

    May 6, 2014 at 8:32 am

    I definitely “passed” this quiz. Great list!

    Reply
    • Carpool Goddess says

      May 6, 2014 at 9:49 am

      Thanks Lucia!

      Reply
  5. Haralee says

    May 6, 2014 at 9:16 am

    I am elderly! I wear bifocals because I can’t see with my contacts and the readers aren’t doing the trick. Contacts sticking to the eyeballs is another indication that you are beyond the middle!

    Reply
    • Carpool Goddess says

      May 6, 2014 at 9:50 am

      Half the time I can’t find my glasses which are sitting on top of my head. Another sign!

      Reply
  6. Carol Graham says

    May 6, 2014 at 10:06 am

    Please do not be angry with me but the only one I agreed with is number 1 — muffin top. I knew I was ‘young’ as my kids tell me but your post confirmed it. I am 66 and feel about 40. Yet, I appreciate the fact that I have all that “experience” of those years that I can draw from — and hopefully wisdom as well.

    2-sexy high heels,
    3-not even one gray hair yet,
    4-I sleep as little as possible and usually start ‘writing’ around 10 at night,
    5 -rarely am nostalgic,
    6 -power walk my dogs,
    8 – love the music and usually want it louder than most people can handle (NO I am not deaf but if I can’t ‘feel’ the beat, it isn’t loud enough)
    9 -nope,
    10 -just the opposite; hence, the muffin top in number 1,
    11 – no leaky surprises
    12 – don’t need glasses
    13 – no gray
    14 – no memory problem
    15 – organized and don’t lose stuff

    But, then I am a health coach for the past 40 years so I better be HEALTHY, right?

    You made my day!!

    Carol @ Battered Hope

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    • Carpool Goddess says

      May 6, 2014 at 10:23 am

      Carol, I need to know your secret! Sometimes I wear sexy high heels too, but then limp around in my fuzzy slippers afterwards.

      Reply
      • Carol Graham says

        May 6, 2014 at 10:48 am

        When I was in my twenties I had cancer and was given two years to live. My choices were hysterectomy or death. Anger rose up inside of me and I told the doctor NO – I would walk in there pregnant one day and he said “Then, lady, go home, suffer and DIE.”

        Three weeks after that diagnosis I was introduced to nutritional healing, and a few years later had taken all the courses, became a health coach and spent the last 35 years or so teaching people how to stay young.

        And…..14 years after the diagnosis I walked into that docs office PREGNANT at 40.

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  7. Antionette Blake says

    May 6, 2014 at 10:45 am

    This is cute, I’m definitely almost there…I can see the mountaintop!

    Reply
  8. Lana says

    May 6, 2014 at 11:02 am

    I think the fact that I found this so funny is another sign! Glad I found your blog – I love it! Have a great day!

    Reply
  9. Sheryl says

    May 6, 2014 at 12:28 pm

    So funny and so true! I always say you work twice as hard to get half the results. Love and relate to all your items!

    Reply
  10. Triplezmom says

    May 6, 2014 at 12:44 pm

    So proud that I’m not quite there yet. But I’m really, really close.

    Reply
  11. Cathy Chester says

    May 6, 2014 at 4:49 pm

    I am middle aged because I have bifocals in every single room, because I wear sweats every day and because I am older than you! Hahaha.

    Reply
  12. Linda Roy - elleroy was here says

    May 6, 2014 at 4:54 pm

    haha #14! I never use the word jog, unless it has to do with my memory. I told the cashier at Lucky Brand that I was disappointed they weren’t playing more Dylan. I just got misty watching the Microsoft commercial where the teenager sings “Gigantic” by the Pixies. I’m wearing a Rock n’ Roll Hall Of Fame Museum T shirt. I think middle age is a safe bet with me.

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  13. Alisa Gibsman Schindler says

    May 6, 2014 at 5:04 pm

    well it’s clear – i’m middle aged. here’s how i knew… http://icescreammama.com/2013/10/08/im-sexy-and-im-the-only-one-who-knows-it/

    Reply
  14. Lois Alter Mark says

    May 6, 2014 at 5:06 pm

    Well, I guess it’s official. I would tell you how many I said “yes” to but I can’t remember.

    Reply
  15. Parri Shahmanesh Sontag says

    May 6, 2014 at 6:19 pm

    I think my favorate part of the story is the disclaimer at the end!

    Reply
  16. Sheryl Kraft says

    May 6, 2014 at 7:28 pm

    So funny and so true! I always say you work twice as hard to get half the results. Love and relate to all your items!

    Reply
  17. StrongerMe says

    May 6, 2014 at 7:46 pm

    The jogging thing has me rolling because I recently decided to jog, and my middle-aged body betrayed me. My ankle rolled and now I sporting the”comfortable but sexy” walking boot for me broken foot. So I will stick to walking…when the doc clears me for it.

    Reply
  18. Ann Epperson McDermitt says

    May 6, 2014 at 9:39 pm

    I should start estate planning immediately…but I’m currently recovering from the Vampire Weekend concert I attended last night. The only thing I really have going my way is the lack of grey hair at 47. I owe my mother for those genetics!

    Loved your “There are young people who act old. Old people who act young.” statement – so completely true.

    Reply
  19. Helene Cohen Bludman says

    May 6, 2014 at 11:34 pm

    A resounding yes to each one. I think I may soon be too old for middle age.

    Reply
  20. Alyson Shitastrophy Herzig says

    May 7, 2014 at 12:47 am

    Thank god I have a few no’s on that list! Phew…that was close!

    Reply
  21. Valerie Newman says

    May 7, 2014 at 1:51 am

    I’m definitely there. But you know, I heard 60 is the new 40. So there we go! Enjoyable reading!

    Reply
  22. Carol Cassara says

    May 7, 2014 at 5:07 am

    Yes, true. Oh, the loud music thing. Sad, sad, sad.

    Reply
  23. Hayley Kaplan says

    May 7, 2014 at 6:02 am

    OMG – some of those things sound awful – please tell me they aren’t true! How about some of the wonderful things about middle age? Not scared to speak our mind. Don’t care about what others think. Enormous amount of wisdom – when we can remember it. And I know there are a bunch more. Just not sure what they are at this moment. Sheesh. I’m going to fight it every step of the way.

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  24. Janine says

    May 7, 2014 at 4:18 pm

    I have a few grays but I’m not ready to go to battle with them yet! I am in semi-denial about my glasses… I need them all the time but I’m annoyed because they’re scratched. It can’t be my eyes – they have to be at fault! And as far as my keys… wait — what did I come in here for??
    Loved this!

    Reply
  25. Jennifer Snarkypants says

    May 8, 2014 at 12:21 am

    Thank God I got a 5, but I refuse to say which….

    Reply
  26. Christina Simon says

    May 14, 2014 at 4:38 am

    God, this is funny. Or, maybe not so funny if this stuff is happening. I say “if” hahha!

    Reply
  27. Kristen says

    May 14, 2014 at 5:58 pm

    That whole “sneeze-pee” thing really ticks me off.

    Reply
  28. Cristina says

    May 15, 2014 at 8:25 am

    #9 every.single.day. I’m 36 and said yes to way more than 5. I also gave up on my gray hair. Can you say skunk stripe?

    (Yay HuffPo)

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    • Carpool Goddess says

      May 15, 2014 at 3:44 pm

      One of these days I will give up on my gray hair too and become a feisty silver haired lady!

      Reply
  29. James Oliver says

    June 6, 2014 at 4:53 pm

    Now, that’s just wrong…and funny!

    Reply
  30. Rosalinde says

    August 7, 2014 at 10:52 am

    OMG I loved this!
    I’m not telling you how many I’ve said yes to, but let’s just say, I was asleep by 10:05pm last night!

    Reply

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